NER-A-NER Secrets To Success

'NER-A-NER' Secrets To Success

Ever talk to one of those people who said, "Don't give away your secrets?"

It is much more exciting and a lot more fun, to share your secrets with others!

Here are some 'Ner-A-Ner' secrets to success in business and to living life in general, in a positive and successful direction. You may claim these secrets as your own, as long as you pass them along, to the next person that you meet and they in turn, pass them along to others!

1. Strive to reach the highest star that you possibly can!

If you strive to reach the highest star and you fall short of your goal, you will still have reached a star that is higher, than if you had tried to reach one that was lower. Who knows? You could be like that highest star, that others are reaching to touch. Be a star, but be one that is the highest star that you can possibly be, in business and in life!

2. If you are going to do something, do it and do it now!

There are so many exciting things in life that you could be doing! Sometimes the things that we know we could be doing, just get passed by, as momentary thoughts and are never actually captured in reality. Don't wait! Begin to do the things that you know you can do and enjoy doing them to the fullest! You will be glad you did, especially when you see the results! Success will be just one of the results!

3. If something is worth doing at all, it is worth doing well!

What is really worth doing? You decide! There are some things in life that are really worth doing and of course there are a lot of things that you could do, that don't have a lot of actual merit at the end. Focus in on the things that you know would really be worth doing and put all of your effort into doing them. Put your whole heart into it! You will be amazed at what you can achieve, if you try. Be an achiever!

4. Do things that are positive and constructive and will benefit you and others!

There are natural born 'builders' and natural born 'destroyers'. The 'builders' build and the 'destroyers' destroy. You can choose to be a 'builder', rather than a 'destroyer'! Just think what could happen, when you choose to 'build' every day, instead of 'destroying'. Look at the legacy that you will be able to leave for those who follow in your footsteps! Teach them to do the same and they will. You will be blessed with success and so will they!

5. Value your time, for it will soon pass, whether or not you have something to show for it!

Look at your life seriously and ask yourself, what you would like to have achieved five years, ten years or even twenty years, down the road. You just may turn around and realize that the time has flown by and you have nothing to show for it, or you may come to that point in time and look back and say, 'I am really glad that I did what I did, when I did it, because it is completed!' Congratulate yourself for your achievements and enjoy your success. Give yourself a pat on the back! You have earned it!

6. Cherish and take advantage of each moment, living life fully, for soon those moments will all be history!

Every moment in time is a moment that actually has merit, whether or not we can visualize it. Learn to see each moment as a moment of opportunity, to be taken advantage of by you. Live life to its fullest each and every day! All of those 'now' moments will have passed away, only too soon. Have something to show for every one of moment, of every day!

7. Turn the energy, from that which affects you negatively, into something that will affect you and others positively!

Even that which affects you negatively or is negative in some sense, can generate energy for you. Negativity and adversity can result in a release of adrenalin into your system. That extra adrenalin causes energy to be released. See that energy as a gift, given to you to use, for something that can be positive or can affect you and others, in a positive sense. You will be amazed at how much actual energy you have, if you choose to convert that energy into doing something that is positive and constructive, instead of letting it eat away at your system. Convert that energy and see how much you can actually accomplish because of all the extra energy that you did not realize that you could have! You won't believe how much better you will start to feel!

8. Be your own best friend, as no one really knows you, your strengths and your weaknesses, as well as you do, unless of course that might be God!

You do know yourself, whether you realize it or not. What you don't know, is what you have not found out about yourself yet. That is still to come! You know what areas of life you are strong in and what areas of life you are less strong in. Don't be your own worst enemy and don't be too hard on yourself. You do not have to be strong in all areas of life. In fact, some of what you perceive to be weaknesses, could actually turn out to be strengths. It will amaze you when you find out that you actually are your own best friend and truly seek to know yourself.

9. Remember that the darkness of failure, is a far heavier burden to carry than the light of success.

Fear of failure has a way of intimidating you into not doing what you could be doing. Failure can cast a very dark shadow on your entire life and your business enterpreneurial spirit, but only if you let it. What happens when you acknowldge the fact that failure is a part of reality? There is nothing wrong with failing sometimes. As a matter of fact, one of the reasons that progress progresses, is because of failure. If the level of true perfection had been achieved in terms of 'whatever', there would have been no need for future improvement. Even failure, in some sense, has some level of success. If nothing else, you are to be commended for trying! Keep on trying. You will succeed! It is only in the light, that there are shadows.

10. Keep expanding your horizons, as you really don't know your own God given potential!

Do you know what possible horizons lie in front of you? No one really does. The only thing that one can do is to step forward, one baby step at a time, into the horizon of the unknown. As you step forward, in your life or in your business, you will find that other horizons expand too! What an exciting time for you, as you discover your new horizons and see your life's plan being fufilled! If we manage to achieve even part of our actual potential in life, it truly is a miracle. Keep expanding your horizons, in terms thought and action. Keep learning and growing. You will be glad that you did!

11. Recognize the multiplicity of pathways to success, as there are many possibilities out there!

There is no such thing as only one road to success! There is also more than one definition of success! What you see as success is not necessarily what others will see as success and it does not have to be what others see. Sure, we are affected by the attitude and reaction of others, to what we say or do and by their reaction to what we perceive to be success. Determine for yourself, what success is to you! Go after it and keep going after it until you actually achieve what you perceive as success. There will always be the criticism of others, but remember, it just might be the fact that they are jealous and secretly envy you and your successes!

12.Don't let money or the lack of money determine what you can do or you cannot do in life, as money is not the determining factor in anything!

Money is merely a commodity, that will always come and go. It you focus on what you determine to achieve, you will probably find out that there is an decent, honest way to obtain the money that you need, without hurting or harming anyone else. If you only do what you do, because of money, you will soon find that it is a cold and comfortless commodity, that really does not give a lot of actual satisfaction. Your personal achievements in life and in business are far more rewarding. The bottom line is love, not love of money. Love God first and love others. Seek their well being and you will find that you are truly blessed with success!